Unequivocal Love
Do you plan on cherishing the gift of love? If so, you might find there is a decision process. This chapter attempts to take "elusive" elements out of the term unequivocal love. Love requires conviction, otherwise a vacillating romance can arise. To be happily in love, there is harmony and commitment. Love is genuine and it is graced with encouragement and affection. A catalyst ingredient to bond this unity is self assurance.
Love connections give us the ability to laugh at our own sentimental yearnings. We learn what love is on the first day we acknowledge a parent cooing at us, and we feel content. Thereafter our parents demonstrate mentoring qualities and showed us social skills to provide an opportunity to develop spiritual convictions for love. From here, the proximity of where one lives is the most compelling reason to find love. You might believe in "love at first sight," but you most likely make a conscious decision to cross the chasm from independence to dependence. Once trust, mutual respect and common interests are discovered, both persons will eventually make an agreement for perseverance, comfort and concern. Love is a spiritual energy that devotes time together so a loyal friendship is formed. This is a relationship where your deepest desires and innermost secrets are retained confidential.
"The love we have to give will be contingent upon the love we have experienced. But there is hope. Love is learned through love."
– Leo Buscagia
